Book Review; Kisses From Katie

I mentioned in a recent post that I would be review this book soon, and here it is!  The full title is Kisses from Kate: A Story of Relentless Love and Redemption by Katie J. Davis, and Beth Clark.  The story is written from Katie’s perspective and Katie is a very interesting sister in Christ.  Katie traveled to Uganda on a short-term mission trip that changed her, and her family’s lives forever.  That short-term trip turned into what is shaping up to be a lifelong adventure.

Falling in love with the people there, and seeing the poverty, disease, and suffering first hand, Katie felt called to return to Uganda… and now she has 13 adopted Ugandan daughters, and is the founder of a really neat charity; Amazima Ministries.  Obviously the book is an account of how all of this went down with the focus being on Jesus and His call on our lives, whatever that call may be.

First, let me say that I loved the book, loved the story, and it is very readable.  I would highly suggest this book to Christian high school students.  All believers would enjoy this account, but I single out students of that age because I feel it would open their hearts to possibilities.  Having said that, this is also the book that prompted me to post an article I titled “Two Left Feet.”  The danger is that those that read Kisses from Katie will either take away legalism, and/or the idea that we all have to go to Uganda and adopt orphans.  Katie is very clear in her book that isn’t the case, but it is not stated in as clear of a manner as I embrace, hence my article.

I admit, the story amazes me, esp. because of Katie’s age (starts at 17/18) and this is from a person who believes that children and adolescents are capable of moving mountains under certain circumstances, and that hard work should not be denied them.  The only thing about this book that may bother certain readers is the sometimes heart-wrenchingly accurate descriptions of the aforesaid poverty, disease, and suffering.  This is definitely a book that helps redefine priorities and does so in a manner that is so refreshingly straightforward with good storytelling and very little “preaching.”  I give it the Scribbler honor of being one of those books I plan to read again.

Get it, read it, give it to a teen, you won’t regret it.

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Confirmation from the Duggar-Dillard Wedding

Please be aware that adult topics are contained in this article.

I’ve reviewed the books out from the Duggar family, and their show, and have talked about things that I agree with from their beliefs, and things I disagree with.  This article really isn’t about the wedding itself, so if you are hoping for some new tidbit of information from Jill Duggar and Derick Dillard’s nuptial day, look elsewhere.   What this article is about is actually the reactions I’ve read around the ‘net about Jill, dating, kissing, sex, and such, that have been expressed as a result of this wedding.

For those of you who don’t follow the Duggars, one of their daughters got married this week, and it was a big deal in the realm of reality TV followers.  Jill Duggar married Derick Dillard after a swift courtship and engagement. “Quirks” about their relationship: 1) They met by being introduced by Jill’s Dad,and both families were involved in their respective “kid’s” interactions with each other. 2) They courted, they did not date.  3)  Their courtship and engagement were very short, they married quickly. 4) They did not hold hands until the proposal. 5) They saved their first kiss until their wedding day.  6) Which obviously means no sex before they were married.  7) Jill had a beautiful dress purchased at a mainstream store.

Isaiah 5:20 Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that put darkness for light, and light for darkness; that put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter!  

Jill and Derick followed their personal beliefs (they are both adults in their 20’s capable of making their own choices) when it comes to modesty and purity in their relationship, leading up to the wedding, and at the wedding itself.  What shocked me wasn’t their choices, but the world’s reaction to their choices.  Isaiah was spot on for today’s society.  All logic is gone, and morality has been flipped on its head.

1) The family was involved in introducing Jill and Derick.  Who cares?  How many people out there of all backgrounds were introduced by family and friends?  A lot.  The other aspect is a bit different than the norm, but makes a lot of sense to me; their families were involved in the courtship.  When they would go somewhere, a family member or a friend went with them.  Why?  Because it is a lot easier to be overwhelmed when we are attracted to someone when we are alone where hormones kick in and you may do something you’ll regret.  Also, they actually cared about the opinions of their family.  The world laughs at this.  The world mocks purity, mocks safety, mocks wise counsel.

2 and 3) Courtship vs. dating.  Courtship is a bit more serious than dating, though it isn’t engagement.  The world mocks anything that doesn’t embrace multiple partners for anything; dating, kissing, sex on demand… How dare a couple actually “date with a purpose,” and that purpose being seriously looking for a mate and not giving anything away for free to someone who may not feel the same as you.  They met, they courted, they fell in love, they got engaged and got married.  People of the world started attacking them for getting married so quickly, acting as though that is dooming them to an unhappy marriage. Hmm…. perhaps they are looking at their own 1st, 2nd, and 3rd marriages making a “common sense” judgment call?  I found it funny when people that married far faster did have the guts to speak up and talk about being happily married, sometimes for 60 plus years.

4 and 5) No hand holding until engagement, no kissing until married.  Wow, this is where we see all morality flipped on its head.  People mocked these beliefs outright… ok, I get it.  It is different, it is strict, and it could be legalistic.  However, there was another line of thinking and mocking that left me dumbfounded.  That was when they were ridiculed because they held hands too intensely.  Read that sentence again.  They were then mocked after their engagement that their hand holding was too sexual. Wait… what?  People talking about how many people they slept with before marriage suddenly turn and call Jill and Derick all kinds of names because they enjoyed holding hands too much. No, I’m not joking.

Kissing.  They saved their first kiss for their wedding day.  You know when the preacher, priest, pastor, etc… says “you may now kiss your bride?” For the majority of human history, this was indeed permission to do something you had never done.  So, they waited.  I think it’s awesome, while I fully admit in our culture it is totally foreign. Jill complimented her husband on his kissing ability, and the world mocks her asking “how would she know?” Besides the evil in men’s hearts, all I can think that would cause people to be so bitter is jealousy.  By the time most young people get to their wedding day, they’ve given everything physical away to someone who is not their spouse.  I’m not judging it, but when someone doesn’t do that, they are attacked.  Good=evil and evil=good.

6) Sex. Abstinence. Suddenly sleeping around, hooking up, one night stands are cool, and waiting for someone you love that you are going to be with til death is mocked. Fantastic. STD’s, broken hearts, unplanned pregnancies, memories you can’t get rid of… all of these things and more are not enough to get some people to understand why it may be good to practice self-control.  Further, Jill is training to be a midwife.  She attends and directs births all the time.  Yet, she’s mocked and ridiculed for being sheltered from sex. Haha. It’s true. It’s laughable.  The world has made a turn, and it isn’t a good one. Rude and lewd remarks about her honeymoon night abound. Good=evil, evil=good.

7) The Duggars are mocked for their thrifty ways (they are debt free and have a good income). They are also mocked for spending money. Yeah… They were mocked for what they served at the reception for being “cheap” (they weren’t). They were then mocked when people found out that Jill had a special day at a mainstream bridal shop and paid for a private fitting and party in the shop while she picked out her dress and had it altered.  They were called redneck hicks, then they were called elite snobs. Heh.  Conservative non-conformists have a bulls-eye painted on them, and if you are a conservative non-conformist who believes in Christ, so do you.  The Bible says it, and it’s is absolutely true.  Regardless of if your beliefs look like theirs, if you really believe  in Jesus, and you are a conservative who strives to do right based on your beliefs, you have a target painted on you.  Persecution, ridicule, mockery, it is only set to get worse.

Again, I do not express our shared beliefs the same way the Duggars do, but I do believe in purity, family, modesty, self-control, financial stewardship, etc… and I wrote this article to draw attention to the state of the world even over something as simple and beautiful as two believers getting married.  Please please please parents, teach your kids, read the word, resist the world, be in it but not of it.  Look around and see what is happening to morality.

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Two Left Feet

We are the body of Christ. All of us who faithe on Him, all of us who believe.  We are the body.  My understanding of this is evolving as I study it, it is evolving as I read, and it is evolving as I pray.  One recent thing that has been bouncing around my brain came up again as a result of reading a really good book that I will review soon: Kisses From Katie.  I’m going to say some things in this article that may indicate I didn’t like the book, or the philosophy found it in, but that’s not true.  It is a jumping off point for me because certain themes keep cropping up in the Christian community.

We have amongst us people that are hands, people that are feet, people that are heart, that are ears, that are blood, that are nerve endings, etc… and that’s wonderful! As Paul says, we are all members of the body of Christ and we each have a role to play.  The problem I see in certain aspects of our Christian society is that we have certain members, say feet, demanding that everyone else be feet too.  I’m a foot, why aren’t you a foot? If you were really a part of the body, you’d be a foot.

Wait… what?  That is antithetical to what Paul directly and clearly teaches in scripture.  If I’m a heart and I try to be a  foot; ouch.  If the body of Christ has two metaphorical left feet, there is no dancing.  I must be what I’m called to be, where I’m called to be it.  Not all of us are called to the mission field in China.  Not all of us are called to go wash people’s bodies in Uganda, India, or Southeast Asia.  Not all of us are called to be lawyers.  Not all of us are called to be preachers in the U.S. Not all of us are called to be kindergarten teachers, or economists, or business men.

There are, however, certain things that the body of Christ has in common, certain traits that we are all called to have because we belong to the same body.  The character of the person connects each bit; my hand can’t be moral or immoral, but I can be moral or immoral and can involve my hand and its actions directed by “me.”  This also holds true since we are a part of the body of who? Christ.  Loving, caring, sober-minded, sharing the gospel with all, helping those around us, etc…  So, yes, there are traits in common, but different roles in life, and we need each person fulfilling their God-given role to make this whole thing run smoothly.

I guess my point is that we need to make sure that we are seeking out what God has in mind for us and our role and not to try to conform ourselves to other believers in their personal roles.  If I’m an eye and try to act like mouth, it isn’t going to work out very well for me or the rest of the body.  Instead of concerning ourselves with modeling ourselves after others who we see doing a really good job in their role, we need to be seeking the wisdom of God in finding and fulfilling our role, as well as being open the possibility that even if our favorite role model is a knee, we just might be an elbow. No role is insignificant.

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When Did Christian Life Become a Joke?

Well?  When did it?  There are many Christians out there that write satire focused on Christian living.  Christians making fun of themselves or other Christians and what we do. It’s funny. It’s cool.  It’s entertaining with it’s “Look! I can make fun of us!” mentality.  I’ve read it, haven’t you?  I was actually reading some of it last night by a very popular Christian author and in the middle of it all, the question hit me, and sobered me up real quick; When did Christian life become a joke?

Christians like side-hugs… haha that’s funny.  Christians raise their arms up in praise and it looks like a touchdown sign in football… haha that’s funny.  I’ve laughed, you’ve laughed, or maybe even snickered. And all I could think of when that question hit me was first-century Christians being tortured and slaughtered because they were believers.  Oh, yeah, we were entertaining even back then, right? Mothers and Fathers watching their children being fed to the lions for the entertainment of others.

I’m not laughing at cheap jabs any more, I don’t care who they come from. Don’t get me wrong, I believe the Lord invented laughter, and wit.  I believe He has a sense of humor.  I just came to realize that this is another way to downplay Christian faith, and make the world look on us as foolish, and something to be laughed off.  “Other people make fun of Christians, so we are going to do it first, and better!” Fantastic.

Right now, as I type this, a pregnant Sudanese woman, a Christian, is being held by authorities until she gives birth and then Muslims are going to execute her for being an “apostate” in their eyes.  Christians like side-hugs! Haha.  Where are our heads?  Where are our hearts?  No, we don’t have to be “downers” all the time, but if just as many people would be sober-minded and serious about things that we as believers should intervene in and take seriously as laugh at “Christian jokes” perhaps we could take better care of our brothers and sisters in Christ.

Yeah, there’s a lot to joke about that is truly funny about “Christian” life.  Churches splitting over the color of the carpet. Haha.  The Church in the U.S. better wake up.  To whom much is given much is expected. “Well, we can still laugh and joke, and be serious about serious things too! You’re such a wet blanket.”  Yes, we can.  If you are the type of believer who has a deep, rich faith, who helps others in meaningful ways on a daily basis, go ahead and laugh about trivial idiocies that we see happen around us, but don’t let that distract others from the Gospel and the dire straits that our ancestors in the faith faced, or the atrocities going on right now.  Further, examine your local church congregation.  Perhaps if you think it is a laughingstock, it’s time to find a different congregation.

Fellowshipping (haha Christians like to fellowship and eat together!) is supposed to be a time of bonding, shared concerns, shared humor, shared food (including the Lord’s Table), and shared scriptural teaching.  We do have a certain humor when we are around each other, but make no mistake, some of the things you think are so witty and clever that they make people laugh about Christians ensure that there are others laughing at us, not with us.  There is a certain type of humor that is rich, Godly (haha, Christians like to add the word “Godly” into  soooo many different things!), good-natured, mature, and then there is cheap, immature humor that insures “the world” does look at us and laugh.

What I’m saying, dear reader (if you are a fellow believer), is think before you joke, think before you laugh. Is it really funny?  Psychologically, what we laugh at and what we joke about does have an effect on how we, and others, view things.  Just think about it.

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War is Coming.

Wow, did The Scribbler just make a prophecy? Am I a prophetess? Nah.  War is always coming, and further, there is always war currently waging, we in the U.S. are unfortunately short sighted when it comes to killing and conflict. It is happening every single day in countries that may seem distant to us, but because it is our fellow humans, it isn’t distant at all.  Don’t believe me that there are wars ongoing?  Use your search engine of choice and check it out; search for current wars.

There are those in the U.S. who don’t seem to realize that war is inevitable.  They don’t know the news, except for what is fed to us by the mainstream U.S. media.  They don’t see what is going on with Russia, the Ukraine, in the Mideast, etc… War, esp. World War, belongs only in the history book to their way of thinking, or on the Silver Screen.  We have become a nation that doesn’t contemplate the inevitable and that is dangerous and sad.

Proverbs 24:5 A wise man is strong, And a man of knowledge increases power. For by wise guidance you will wage war, And in abundance of counselors there is victory.

Wisdom, knowledge, and wise counselors can only be had if we admit that there is a need to be strong, powerful, and have the ability to wage war and come out victorious.  We need strong and wise military minds and that takes top-notch military schooling and training.  It also takes us, as a culture, saying that being a Godly warrior can be a calling.  The Lord willing may they never see battle, but they are a need.  There is a time for war, and a time for righteous anger.

One last point; if you are a current service man or woman, or have served this country in the past, OR are family to a service man or woman; Thank You for your service.  For the rest of us, we need to be aware of the changes to the military in this country, the lack of funding, and the lack of respect from certain segments of our own government.  When looking for ways to teach our kids charity, make sure to consider those highly ranked charities that aid our men and women in uniform.

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The Christian and Debt

Debt is all around us, and most of us have some type of debt currently.  I just read a statistic yesterday that less than 50% of all Americans have any net worth at all, meaning that less than 50% of us have monetary value (including assets) over the amount of monetary debt we owe.  Financially, then, most Americans are worth less than zero. Think about that.  Our country has changed over time and we are a nation of debtors living in a nation of debt.  Yes, debt has always, and will always be around, but we are now going into debt for things people in the past would never have considered signing away their future earnings for.

So, what does God teach us about debt, money, and how we can faithfully handle our finances? Now, obviously I’m not going to be able to cover every scripture or every situation.  There are many good resources out in the market today that do a better job covering all of that than I ever could.  But, I did want to cover a specific aspect of debt that people tend to wink at; Proverbs 22:7 The rich rules over the poor, and the borrower becomes the lender’s slave.  Really think that over; you are a slave to anyone you have borrowed money from.  Do you owe a  bank, credit company, hospital, the government, etc…?

Whoever you owe money to, you are their slave.  You work for them.  Your money is theirs, and that is a Biblical concept.  In an age where we borrow money from all of these places, we have so many masters we can’t count them.  Remember where it says that we can’t serve two masters? Wow.  We just don’t think of these things, and what we want, we want it now.  If we need an automobile, why of course we take out a loan because the masters make it easy to make monthly payments.  We demand a college education, so we take out a loan because the masters act as though we’ll be able to easily pay it back.  Our very nation is sinking in debt, and whoever holds our debt is our master.  Scarey, hunh?

Romans 13:8 Owe nothing to anyone except to love one another… If we owe someone money, we give them power over us, and it limits what we can do with our work.  Everything that we have comes from God, and our best position is to be free to use what God blesses us with how He sees fit.  If we owe money, our money is yoked to the lender.  Now, if someone is in need, the answer can be giving, not borrowing.

Giving someone money (or things) freely, with no strings is different than lending.  It by-passes usury, and hard feelings.  The other answers come in how we view the world and our needs.  When I taught logic and philosophy at college, I urged my students to sit and write out their actual needs; what do you need to live?  It’s a short list.  We live in a world that tells us we NEED all of these various things, but it is a lie.  Don’t believe the lie, live below your means, surround yourself with wise people, read wise words, control you money, don’t let it control you, etc…

We should strive to be aware, strive after Godly wisdom and Godly ways.  We should also chafe a little bit when contemplating who are master, or masters are, and finally ask ourselves if our money is serving us (and God), or are we serving it?

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Proverbs 20:3

The book of Proverbs is one of those books in the Bible that you can read, read, and read over again, and always find something new.  These Proverbs are words of wisdom that we can glean important lessons from, if we actually take the time to absorb what is being said, and to meditate on it.  I have finally picked up the habit of reading the Proverb chapter of the day that corresponds to the day of the month.  If I get behind, I catch up by reading the previous day’s reading.

My studies yesterday included Proverbs 20:3 Keeping away from strife is an honor for a man, but any fool will quarrel.  How often do we run into people that like to argue simply for the sake of arguing, for stirring up strife?  Honestly, in my earlier years, this was very often me.  I love conversation, and sometimes argumentation a little too much.  Looking deeper at this Proverb we see that we can differentiate ourselves from fools by becoming, in essence, peacemakers at best, and at the very least people that avoid strife.

I want to say that this idea isn’t limited to politics, religion, or other things people fight over,  but also includes silly things that we should never fight or get angry with out fellow humans about.  This also isn’t saying that we shouldn’t stand up for things that we believe in, but rather that we don’t argue for arguing-sake, because “any fool will quarrel,” so quarreling doesn’t separate or elevate you above the average human.  Calmly stating truth isn’t quarreling, and a quarrel usually takes at least two to tango, so the next time someone baits you into quarreling, remember that honor is yours if you avoid strife.

As I’ve previously stated on here, the same is true for the friends we pick to be around, so combining these ideas means we shouldn’t surround ourselves with friends that like to quarrel.  There is enough strife in this world to go around without deliberately exposing ourselves to it.

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